Tuesday, January 31, 2006
my pretend relationship
Although I wrote this about 2 years ago, it still holds true today. This is what I think of when I think of a real relationship.
After some events at home these past few days, I decided to write about what I would do in a relationship that was vital and alive. I will try to leave out any expectations for my love as those things she does for me would be of her own choice and what she was comfortable doing.
Morning: I wake up next to her and reach out to touch her skin and snuggle close. Kissing her neck passionately, I whisper my love for her then start doing the normal things one does after a night’s sleep. Starting the coffee, and stepping into the shower to get ready for work, I invite her to join me if she is up. She is up today and joins me so we can wash each other’s back and share some passionate kisses and hugs while bathing.
After our shower, we go into the kitchen for some fresh hot coffee and some low carbohydrate muffins and some soft conversation about our love for each other and our plans for the day. We both start off to work, and whether she works at home or in a job outside the home, she is on my mind as I drive to work.
I Instant Message her several times from work and call her at noon to see if she would like to meet me for lunch. Today, she is busy and I have a meeting, so the lunch date must wait for another opportunity. The day goes by as I think about her and what I might be able to do to show my love for her once I arrive home again. Today, I drop by Walmart on the way home and pick up several yellow roses to present to her on my arrival.
As I arrive home, she calls to me from the kitchen where she is preparing our evening meal. Going in the kitchen quietly, I come up behind her at the counter and softly kiss her neck and breathe on and kiss her cheek. As she turns to welcome me, I bring the roses from behind my back and present them to her and pull her into my arms for some more passionate kissing and hugging and telling her how much I missed her during the day. We share what we did at work while I pitch in to do the few dishes left from breakfast and help cut up vegetables for supper.
We light candles for our supper table and exchange loving gazes as we sit for our meal together. During the meal, we talk about where we might like to go for vacation this year and decide to plan together the trip. After the meal, we go to our travel materials and look through them to get some ideas of a romantic destination we can go to this year. Interspersed between the travel brochures are loving glances and lots of kisses and face and hand touching. She says she is experiencing some pain in her hands so I take each hand in turn and gently massage her fingers, wrists, palms, and back of her hands, kissing them every few minutes until she says they are warm and feeling much better.
Later on in the evening, we share a drink by the fire as we snuggle together on the couch gently hugging and caressing each other. Finally time for bed arrives. I get up and reach out and help her up from the couch, put my arm around her and walk with her to the bedroom. We take turns in the bathroom and get ready for another night together.
I will not describe our intimate times here as someone who is underage may read this. Suffice it to say that every moment together is an exercise in ecstasy as we please each other and cater to the others longings, wants, and needs. When we are ready to settle down for the night, we share many intimate words and many more kisses and hugs. We snuggle together under the blankets and I pull her to me again kissing her face and neck and whispering my love for her. If I wake during the night for any reason, I gently kiss her arm near the shoulder and spend a few moments touching any exposed skin I might find before I again snuggle close to her and settle down to sleep again.
The next day begins as the previous one, with me thinking and saying how very fortunate I am to have found her and how much I love being near her. I start to plan in my mind what little thing I might do for her that day that will attest to my undying love.
If I had a relationship that was alive and growing, that is how I would keep it alive and wonderful from day to day.
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After some events at home these past few days, I decided to write about what I would do in a relationship that was vital and alive. I will try to leave out any expectations for my love as those things she does for me would be of her own choice and what she was comfortable doing.
Morning: I wake up next to her and reach out to touch her skin and snuggle close. Kissing her neck passionately, I whisper my love for her then start doing the normal things one does after a night’s sleep. Starting the coffee, and stepping into the shower to get ready for work, I invite her to join me if she is up. She is up today and joins me so we can wash each other’s back and share some passionate kisses and hugs while bathing.
After our shower, we go into the kitchen for some fresh hot coffee and some low carbohydrate muffins and some soft conversation about our love for each other and our plans for the day. We both start off to work, and whether she works at home or in a job outside the home, she is on my mind as I drive to work.
I Instant Message her several times from work and call her at noon to see if she would like to meet me for lunch. Today, she is busy and I have a meeting, so the lunch date must wait for another opportunity. The day goes by as I think about her and what I might be able to do to show my love for her once I arrive home again. Today, I drop by Walmart on the way home and pick up several yellow roses to present to her on my arrival.
As I arrive home, she calls to me from the kitchen where she is preparing our evening meal. Going in the kitchen quietly, I come up behind her at the counter and softly kiss her neck and breathe on and kiss her cheek. As she turns to welcome me, I bring the roses from behind my back and present them to her and pull her into my arms for some more passionate kissing and hugging and telling her how much I missed her during the day. We share what we did at work while I pitch in to do the few dishes left from breakfast and help cut up vegetables for supper.
We light candles for our supper table and exchange loving gazes as we sit for our meal together. During the meal, we talk about where we might like to go for vacation this year and decide to plan together the trip. After the meal, we go to our travel materials and look through them to get some ideas of a romantic destination we can go to this year. Interspersed between the travel brochures are loving glances and lots of kisses and face and hand touching. She says she is experiencing some pain in her hands so I take each hand in turn and gently massage her fingers, wrists, palms, and back of her hands, kissing them every few minutes until she says they are warm and feeling much better.
Later on in the evening, we share a drink by the fire as we snuggle together on the couch gently hugging and caressing each other. Finally time for bed arrives. I get up and reach out and help her up from the couch, put my arm around her and walk with her to the bedroom. We take turns in the bathroom and get ready for another night together.
I will not describe our intimate times here as someone who is underage may read this. Suffice it to say that every moment together is an exercise in ecstasy as we please each other and cater to the others longings, wants, and needs. When we are ready to settle down for the night, we share many intimate words and many more kisses and hugs. We snuggle together under the blankets and I pull her to me again kissing her face and neck and whispering my love for her. If I wake during the night for any reason, I gently kiss her arm near the shoulder and spend a few moments touching any exposed skin I might find before I again snuggle close to her and settle down to sleep again.
The next day begins as the previous one, with me thinking and saying how very fortunate I am to have found her and how much I love being near her. I start to plan in my mind what little thing I might do for her that day that will attest to my undying love.
If I had a relationship that was alive and growing, that is how I would keep it alive and wonderful from day to day.
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